In the developed world we have been told that we can customize our lives, making them exactly what we’d like them to be. But this promise is actualized by very few people, though is implicitly or explicitly promised to all. We feel that we are somehow owed opportunities for wealth and/or fame, that it is accessible to all because we have seen so many televised success stories. Those who strive to make choices that will improve their lives far more often than not fail to achieve what they set out for, and they wind up feeling worse about themselves than ever before. The choices that they feel they could, or should, have made to bring them success have remained elusive, and so they feel that they’ve made the wrong decisions, when in fact it was a million-to-one shot that they would end up like the new star they’ve admired on television. We are meant to think that choice is power, but in fact choice can provoke anxiety.
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